pain/ Amanda Field (passerby) The pain Is unbearable I know right now and baby Alexander Is a beautiful baby In the photo's you have proudly taken.. I'm sorry he was taken away from the ones who loved him dearly.. Amy Field was stillborn at 39wks In April 2001 and we still grieve now for her..
Even though I have exprienced this kind of undescribeable pain, there are no words to say to you or your family. Just know I am praying for you from one special mommy to another. May God give you peace and comfort you for the rest of your days. I have found it so special that God trusted me with my son. How blessed we are that we got to hold our boys and see their beautiful eyes. I am so sorry for your loss and will be thinking of you. God Bless
friend/ Selma Flynn (friend) first here is a big hug for alexander's loved ones. i know the pain and the hurt. we cry all the time. my son was killed on june 4 05 so i am so sorry. i know pain and hurt please feel free to go to my son's website at www.bobbo.memory-of.com my email firstname.lastname@example.org he is with god in god's hands.
My prayers / Monique Yeager Jennifer,
This year, my donation of $1,000 to the Central Florida Division of the March of Dimes will be made in Alexander's name. He is a truly beautiful baby.
I pray every day that March of Dimes continues to find ways to prevent tragedy.
My prayers and thoughts are with you. Love, Monique Yeager
for Alexander's love ones / Anna Hoenshell (rn staff from extended care nursery) My heartfelt condolonces to your family. I wasn't one of his primary nurses but i remembered him as one of the good little boys in our nursery ...and when mommy and alexander visited us in Extended Care Nursery. He is now with God and playing with all the angels in heaven.Your family will be in my prayers.
My Condolences / Carolyn You have been in my prayers since I read about Alexander on LGF. He is a beautiful baby boy. May the Lord hold you and your wife close and give you comfort. As I said on LGF, you have hundreds if not thousands of friends who care.
I am so sorry.... / Sarah Gibson (None- Mother of an Angel) Jennifer, I just want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I was in your shoes 6 months ago. Although it does get better, there are still bad days. Nothing anyone says or does can make it better, it will only help you through your grief. I have met some people along my journey of grief that tried to help in their own way, but they said all of the wrong things. If you come across these people remember that they have not experienced this kind of loss and are only doing what they know how. Don't let anyone tell you that you should be over it, or that it was for the better. You have lost the most precious gift that a mother has, it will take time. There is a website that I found that has a list of things for people to know when someone they know and love are going through a grief this terrible. When we wrote our thank you notes we included some of these. The website is http://www.pregnancylossribbons.com/forfriendsandfamily.htm I have also made a website for my son, it is http://www.babiesonline.com/babies/j/josephanthony1/
Be at peace / Dale K. (Friend)
God doesn’t create a hole in your heart as unimaginably big as yours must be that he doesn’t allow you to ultimately fill with something else. Although the hurt will never disappear, it will grow to be more bearable and quietly become a part of who you are. You will see other children, and their parents, and sunsets and rain and quiet moments more deeply than the rest of us will ever know. I know you would trade it all for Alexander back, but this is the silver lining in your now very dark cloud. Let it be a legacy he would be proud of. Trust in God and be at peace.
There are no words... / Randi Rosete (friend of Jennifer) Jennifer -
There are no words that can heal your wounded heart. I want you to know how terribly sad I am for you and your husband. There can be no loss in the world greater than that of one's child. My heart aches for you!
Love - Randi
Alexander & Family, / Ruth Grandmother Of Dekoda-Allen-Leesetv-ens.momory-of.com (privileged to visit visiter) I was sitting with Dekoda Stevens's Mother lookming for his web site & we came acrossed Alexander's web site. We both know very well whwat you & your family members are feeling & what you are going through. His store touched both of our hearts. He is such a handsome little man. I know Alexander & Dekoda are playing & watching over all. Dekoda has been gone for 6 1/2 years & it still hurts. That is our lifes pain now.But we do have him guarding over us, as Aelxander is & will always guard you & your family. God Bless you in your time of pain & sarrow. Your family are in our hearts & in our prayers.